So, today, H has a picture posted on FB of a beautiful woman who I am pretty sure is just a friend. He wishes her a happy birthday and it is uploaded from his phone, looks like they were at a coffee shop...no I didn't spend long on it.
I feel f*cked with a little. Ya think?
When we have our talk, I think I am going to suggest we "unfriend" each other but it has actually been a cool way to see what is going on or peak interest. So juvenile.
He had attempted to chat with me last night and I saw it this morning.
Focus...AK...focus.
Seems stupid to upload a picture taken with someone and wish them a happy birthday so I would assume it's a provocation on his part...but you don't have to bite. My reco would be to not unfriend unless you just can't take it. Keep taking the high road with everything you do and post on fb. It will serve you well in the end. It's a great way to show him how your livin without going over the top...and you know he is watching. Resist the urge to go tit-for-tat or react...but I'm just another schmo
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09