Thanks for the advice. This is definitely a site I never thought I would have to visit. I think maybe I will be prepared with a card just in case but definitely will not hold my breath. He has been a little nicer to me. His tone has changed just a little on the phone. But I don't really know where he is at. I have not mentioned anything about our situation to him in over two weeks and he has not brought it up either, I don't know if that is good or bad, I just have to wait and that is not fair to me but if I want my marriage I guess that is what I will have to do.