Explain to me this. What point do me and my W have to be at in our relationship to qualify me to ask her if she will go to Retrouvaille?

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...