So, today, H has a picture posted on FB of a beautiful woman who I am pretty sure is just a friend. He wishes her a happy birthday and it is uploaded from his phone, looks like they were at a coffee shop...no I didn't spend long on it.
I feel f*cked with a little. Ya think?
Don't take the bait.
Maybe you need to put some photos up on your FB page.
a) my power is in what he doesn't know
b) I have married as my status (as does he) but unlike him, I would be embarrassed to be overt and involve our friends and family by exposing them to OP.
c) I did post a picture...of me. That got me a text, an email and a stuttering phone call followed by a barrage of intermittent inquiries regarding both my personal and professional life...most of which I did not answer.