A Little Epiphany - (and a newbie delurking)

[Dia]

And just FYI - sometimes crying during love-making is just catharsis. It may not always have to do with the situation immediately at hand. Sex for many is about bringing down walls and barriers. Sometimes when those come down, it's hard to predict what will slip out.

When it's really intensely good, sometimes I cry. And when I do, H has been very, very good about holding me, comforting me and not taking it personally. On the upside, there are other times when its intensely good that I am overcome with deep laughter/giggles. He tends to prefer that response, at least after he established long ago that I was not laughing at *him.*

Since I'm in a self-revelatory mood today, I'll tell you that the reason I didn't let him finish things last night is that I knew I would cry. Neither one of us was ready for that.