He's just too big of a mess! The fact that he won't take any responsibility for anything and even twists his cancellations into your failures somehow shows how irrational he continues to be. I don't know how he can work on a marriage when he really needs to work on himself.
Maybe you need to walk away for a while and just work on YOURself, too. Heal. Spend more time with al anon or an IC instead of a MC. I'm not saying file for divorce (unless you want to) but I think you need a break from this crazy dance.
Completely agree!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
