Still Wondering How To Handle Things!!

[mishka422]

Ok then.....if you're ready.....why don't you go file? Why does he have to be the one to do it?

Yes, he left initially, but now it's all about you. What do you truly want? If you want your M then tell him that. You are going to have to be the one to force the issue. Frankly, he's quite content to have you hanging on a line waiting to be reeled in with a crook of his finger if he wants while not having to be a committed H and full time father. He's loving it - regardless of what it seems like. He's gotten everything he asked for...what have you gotten out of this?

Strength.
Fortitude.
Self-confidence.
Wisdom.

What more do you need? It's not a matter of he 'won't' move forward one way or the other, it's a matter of you haven't made him. 3 years? It could end up 5-10. Are you really ready for an extended sentence in limbo hell?