This post marks my moving to Piecing. Thanks to Kitti for providing me with my first Piecing post subject.
My sitch:
Me: 33 yo W: 32 yo Kids: Twin boys, 3 yo in Nov. Bomb: July 17 2003 W was first seeking D, then seeking S; in a sequence of events from Thursday to Sunday, we have reconciled, we have pulled out of the offer on a house for W, and we are enthusiastically and happily committed to rebuilding our marriage.
We are still in separate bedrooms. We want to take this slowly. We are going to councilling. Things to work on include both of our issues with boundaries, intimacy, etc. so we're taking it slow.
Haven't been getting to the boards as much as I'm used to here lately, so I need to catch up on everyone's threads here soon.
Here's something interesting - my W gave me a "homework assignment" this morning. She wants me to make a list of things that I like, things she can do to show she loves me. The funny thing is - this is going to be hard for me! I really don't know. Good assingment.