Michelle, I think that might be a good idea, though when W text me like that it comes across condescending. Maybe that's just the way I take it, but I think "of course I'm doing OK, you think I'll fall apart or something?"

What do you think about asking directly about the test results through text?

Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
Responded, now dark
"I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK