Future, thank you so much for this post! You reminded me that my wife pulled the same thing you just mentioned on her birthday in August. I put together a really nice birthday for her and she was already planning on skipping work the next day so she could hang out with EA friend. I took my ring off before I found out about it. Then she completely ignores our anniversary and I help her when she is sick?? But you are right, I can look back on this and know that I was a gentleman. My kids will and do love me for it.

Did you ever start dating at all? Or maybe just make your W jealous by accident or on purpose?


Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final