LOL...I was with H for 14 years. Once many months ago, I listed all of his positive attributes on here. I can't endure doing it again because it jacks me up, but there were plenty.
On my list of desirables, creativity is toward the top of my list. But, thats also been a pain in the a**.
Also, post-separation has been H at his worst...I'm sure you'd have come off as a douche bag if she was posting about you 10 months ago...
You're safe here, with all your humility and self-examination...the blacklist is only for current offenders.
