Still Wondering How To Handle Things!!

[kissak]

I need some advice on how to handle jealousy...not mine, but my H's.

Its going on 3 years in December that we have been going through this separation. Things are better in a way, but only because there is no OW right now. Our R is good for the most part. Only my H has not made any steps towards moving home. OR towards a divorce.

Im at a point where Im ready to just get things going one way or the other. Ive almost talked myself into asking him to go and file the paper work for our separation at least...just to get things going.

That is not what I want, but he hasnt changed and honestly if he did, im almost certain I would never trust him and Im afraid I would be miserable trying.

THing is, if I even try to talk to any other man, just a friendly hello, or comment on my fb will set him off! He starts acting all ticked off at me, but wont come right out and say why and its really irriating me and Im not quite sure how to handle it...I mean, he doesnt want to be with me, so why cant I try to be happy???

ANd NO, my H is not a friend on my page...he actually is friends with a few of the guys I talk to...well, I dont think their friends, I just think its a way to keep up with me.

How do I handle this in a nice loving way? Or can it not be done. I mean Im at the point where we either need to make a decision to try to work things out and get back together or just go file....time to move somewhere with all of this! I mean 3 years???? Im ready.