Of course she's frustrated, i have confused the hell out of her and no matter what she thought i was going to do, I'm not doing it.
I was always the one that emailed or texted first or called first or said hi first or asked for conversation first.
This is a woman that thought i would kill myself if divorce was ever mentioned. it has and i haven't. She thinks I can be a mean s o b and be very unforgiving and mean and controlling and I never asked for help.
I know for a fact I am doing the opposite of what she thought I was and doing what I want to do,regardless of what she thought I'm not.
She thought I was a bigot. I grew up in Boston in a very diverse neighborhood where everyone was a stereotype. We live in the midwest. Guess what I don't use slang anymore, a person told me this or that, not what I used to say.
I have reached out to family that I flat cut off for past wrongs,now she knows I talk to them.
So yes I am frustrating her. The old relationship is gone at somepoint there is going to be a new one.
