Still in the tunnel with hubby

[kjensen]

Hi Jack,
The talks are to practice active listening and to discuss "hot topics" in an active listening forum...The tension isn't bad on those days..H usually forgets on the day we're supposed to talk but seems amenable to have the talk the next day when one of us remembers or brings it up. H usually doesn't speak first-lets me bring up a topic... I have to say that this homework began in our communication class we took last spring and helped open up the communication between us prior to OW dumping H..

This is the homework our MC gave us once we started counseling(at H's initiative)-The marriage counselor has read and has recommended Divorce Busting in his communication class... Maybe I need to bring up non-topics? just to practice the active listening technique? Maybe I don't bring up missing the day to talk and see how long it goes? I'm just not sure what to do..Any ideas?