You are right Jon..it does help to be with others. Actually just in the past few weeks have I really done anything social. The past 14 months has just been baby and I. Gives you a bit more confidence that you are not the shrew your exspouse makes you out to be. I know I won't be able to do a fraction of what these single people with much older kids do, but its nice to be included when I can.
I know that exh is so chronically unhappy and probably never will be settled with me or anyone else. A friend told me he took off his "in a relationship" status for FB. Bet married gf is not happy. Oh well.
Oh, has anyone seen the movie Obsessed? Watched it the other day. That husband was pretty strong in that movie. Admire his integrity for the mostpart. Could totally relate to the pain in the wife when she thought he may have cheated. The OW made me sick how she preyed on the married man. So disgusting.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
