(((((Kalni))))) I agree with what is being said... but...
You are the only one whose opinion matters. You get to look in the mirror every day, and know that you did the right thing for YOU, and the kids. (I'm inclined to think the right thing for you is the right thing for the kids.) So, no matter what I think, or we think, it's really up to you. And no matter what you decide, I believe we (ok, I shouldn't speak for others, but I'm going out on a limb) will support you.
