Arent 99% of the people on here cheating? Havent we all agreed to that? So, does that mean 99% here should just drop the issue?
And dont all cheaters lie? How can cheat and not lie?
I am not defending stbxH. I am just typing my thought process and need some help to clarify the impossible from the possible.
Bill, stxH lied to me 1 year while staying here, 1 year I brought her up a few times and he denied she existed and since he "Came back" he was careful to answer to my remarks about her except those times as you said that he blew and said I was nuts... Yes he has shown he is VERY capable of lying to my face and doing everything to gaslight me and make me think I am crazy.
And yes, I doubt he could change. I doubt he could take the crap he WOULD have to from me, granted there is no such thing as trust anymore.
Still waiting for an asnwer to my questions. And to be honest, I cant wait to tell him all the reasons I can not try with him again. I would love to see him trying to defend himself, using his "power" on me to convince me. I would love to hear him say he loves me desperately and that he will spend the rest of his life making it up to me. I am sure he wont. K
