T2...sorry I got you mixed up with Rachael..I was thanking you for the "speech" you wrote for me to talk to my h..I carry it around..waiting for the right time.. Rachael...a wonderful posting...had alot of us thinking.. If(when) my h ever comes home, I hope you guys are still around to help me through this rough journey.
Hi Deb, KK, Sue, Cathy and all, Just popping by my own thread to keep my mitts off everybody elses for a few minutes
Things are going fine with H....and I'm keeping all my demons to myself and spilling them all over the chats with you gals...so I'm not messing anything up so far this time.
H and I are taking the week's vacation the first week of November (we missed the one we were suppose to take in Sept. thanks to Isabelle) and I'm getting to meet and hang out with KK because she lives down there...I'm soooooo excited to meet one of my BB friends "in real life."
Well, my wedding anniv. is this Sunday and y'all know how I've been back and forth about whether I wanted to ignore the day or do something...well my H called me at work today and he's already made plans for us for the day so I guess we'll be doing something anyway. I still think I'd like to let this one just go past and see where we are this time NEXT year, but, I'll enjoy this one too at least I'll sure try.
Well all, I'm off to go nosing around on your threads now. T2
Quote: Um...HE made plans for your anniversary???? I'd say that is a GOOD THING, hon!!!
I third this...is there such a thing??!!!!!
Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)
Well.. I am going to fourth it!!!! I know how hard it is...it is a special day...but it is just a "day"..there will be more ahead for us to celebrate..but heck if he is planning something..take it and embrace it.
Things have changed again for the better. Of course we had to go to hell and back to get here, but it had to be done. I explained on my thread-"You Can't Hurry Love." After our hugely intense meeting on Friday, things have been so much better. He's acting like heloves me,and wants to be around me again. I think since he's finally decided to give up even talking to the OW, he feels so much better. There was no PA going on, and he says they've only talked a few times. I went off on him totally. Something I never do. It warented it and was a long itme coming. He knoew he'd lose meif he didn't lose her. He chose me adn our family.We had a great time this weekend with our kids and grandkids-we took a road trip down south to Nnshville, IN., and spent the whole day together. We're always together anyway, but his time we were haivng FUN! he was so sweet when we left tonight. It actually seemed as though he didn't want to leave me! Progress! Ya gotta love it! Rachael
