OMG you are going on a business trip to Maui?! Awesome! I was just telling a coworker yesterday that I wanted to go to a tropical island, lounge on the beach with a drink, and enjoy the moment. Just to be away from things for a while would be a GOD send.
Hang in there girl you have come a long way in the last two months. You have gained so much strength. Look at it this way... He may be out of the house, but I haven't read anywhere that he is going after a D. I on the other hand, have H still here, but is going after D quite strongly right now. So what would you rather have?...
H is running around so hard trying to get rid of me. Skank must really be pressuring him lately. BUT I have this PEACE all around me. Thank you JESUS...
Can you believe the luck - 4 days in Maui alone...
If I could I would have all of you join me, we can all use the break!
It is a God-send and something I really need to regroup and refocus...
H is back to being angry at me again...
I am not even around and he is still taking his anger out on me...
Makes me sad for him...
He stated he doesn't think about D anymore however I am still not cool with him living somewhere else and banging another woman and while I don't believe in D, my feelings still get the best of me at times and there are days when I feel like throwing the towel in and just filing to get it over with.
You are much stronger today then when you first came on as well and I am proud of you and how you have handled yourself with recent events
The Peace is a blessing from above especially considering what we are living with...
That I am most thankful for!
Do you think I should tell him I am going out of town?
(((Hugs))) to you
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
We live with my parents right now so they will be with them...
To be honest, I don't want to tell him...
I make a point to have as little contact as possible with him plus with me going out of town he may be inclined to bring the FT around my boys and that will just entail me needing to kick her fat butt when I return
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
- Are you sure you don't want to take anyone? I am sure I can get those days free
Originally Posted By: Serenity13
I will be in Maui for 4 days and I have no plans of telling him either (or should I?)...
- I don't see any reason to tell him. Unless he is taking care of your boy, then he should probably know where you are.
My neighbor did this to prove she could enjoy herself all by herself. She went to Mexico for a week and said it was great. You will have no problem keeping yourself busy for 2 days in Maui. It will go by faster than you think. Enjoy it
Since the boys are in good hands, and you don't want to tell him, then I wouldn't!
Remember this summer when I went away for three weeks to visit my daughter? I was so concerned about her coming into my house, and being around my boys. In my case, my boys are my dogs, but just the same I didn't want her touching them. I still don't know if she did or not. There's nothing I can do about it now anyway. I just remember that GOD is in control of the situation, and put my TRUST in HIM.
My advice also would be to leave the FT alone. She will do herself in eventually. She has no morals. How can she, she is with a married man. No matter what he tells her, and she chooses to believe, she STILL is with a MARRIED man. Let GOD be your vindicator.Let HIM have the GLORY. Keep your INTEGRITY, and you'll be the BETTER person for it!
Believe me I know, it's not easy. Oh what I would love to do to the skank! But she has no morals. She is a sick person. AND She is not in GODS favor.
I would take you all just so you can have a break from the madness if I could...
No he doesn't take care of either of our boys - The youngest he hasn't seen since the day he walked out so I agree - No reason he needs to know...
I need to know I can do this alone...
In the 38 years I have been alive, I have never even eaten in a restaurant by myself - Not even a fast food joint...
It is hard but I need to prove something to myself...
I wouldn't mind any of you joining me though...
We all need the break
Hmm.... Things I would enjoy doing by myself in Maui? 1. Read a good book in a hammock under a palm tree 2. Walk on the beach at sunrise. 3. Walk on the beach at sunset. 4. Go snorkeling or scuba diving 5. Go to a luau. 6. Take surfing lessons 7. Get as close as possible to a volcano without burning myself. 8. Read a good book in a hammock under a palm tree (watch out for the coconuts) 9. Visit the local market 10. Take a helicopter tour. 11. Find an outdoor folk concert to hang out 12. Find myself a great momento to bring home.
