"I'm sorry. I'm sure that when you are ready to discuss this, you will initiate the conversation.
I hope you have a great day."
RSF
I have already sent the previous email. So would I still follow it up with something like the above? I just like something short to take any implied pressure off.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
his is the next level of your training Daniel son...wax on, wax off.
You are so right on and you are so effing hilarious. I just tried to pull the wax on wax off with my IC this week and he called bs on me. LOL...gotta give me credit for being fabulously transparent!
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
RSF, I don't buy it. You've got it all. Smart, witty, sensitive, manly (the whole baseball thing)...even this sort of self-deprecating thing is a bit savvy. If you can't fool us here on a thread, let it go.
Funny to think about how our personas develop on a forum like this. Me, manly, yes in my mind, power tools, got all kinds of them. Sports, not really into it but love soccer, bit of a metrosexual...well, kinda, Creative, two degrees in design, got that too. Funniest thing is when people refer to me as RSF, I think razorfish, and agency I was involved with in the past. Don't know a thing about the Red Sox and don't live in Boston
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
Silly Wabbit. You don't pay IC to watch you wax on wax off...you pay them to watch you toil and spill your guts out...and they like to feel like they've earned their $.
This opens up a whole new realm of possibilities for me ;-)
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
Funny to think about how our personas develop on a forum like this. Me, manly, yes in my mind, power tools, got all kinds of them. Sports, not really into it but love soccer, bit of a metrosexual...well, kinda, Creative, two degrees in design, got that too. Funniest thing is when people refer to me as RSF, I think razorfish, and agency I was involved with in the past. Don't know a thing about the Red Sox and don't live in Boston
Oh for cryin' out loud, that just about describes my H (whom you probably know)...good thing I have a bag over my head.
Oh for cryin' out loud, that just about describes my H (whom you probably know)...good thing I have a bag over my head.
Great! Now I'm going to end up blacklisted here on the forum.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
"I'm sorry. I'm sure that when you are ready to discuss this, you will initiate the conversation.
I hope you have a great day."
RSF
I have already sent the previous email. So would I still follow it up with something like the above? I just like something short to take any implied pressure off.
OK, I'll take no response as direction to do nothing. I'll leave her be.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
RSF….You ask/email/text/talk to her about stuff with the hopes that she will say “OMG!! Yes, I’m coming home RIGHT NOW!!! What was I thinking?????? I’m soooo stupid! Thank goodness your well worded email/text set me straight! I’ll be there in 30 seconds and we’ll grab the kids and ride off into the sunset and forget this chapter in our lives! We’ll be perfect and happy FOREVER!” Not gonna happen. So why are you pushing forward with this divorce? If it’s because you want it to end, you’re ready and confident you can say you did try then OK. I’m with you. If it’s because of the suspected reason above, then SHUT UP. Stop talking to her about D. Ignore it as was suggested to you by many many many of us. My H filed. Had me served. I responded last Thursday. Things have been better since last Thursday in our marriage than it has been in years. Go freaking figure….. Wait this out RSF. And stop asking what can be done to not only speed this up but make her come back to you. The answer is nothing. You have to SIT STILL. SHUT UP. You can do it.
