Dave, Your breaking my heart. You need to protect your rights with your children. Talk to your attorney about ensuring you have appropriate visitation. I think you have a case pending. You need to file a PDL motion with a temporary parenting plan immediately. You have got to formalize your custody arrangement with the court. Your getting caught flat footed like most men in these situations. Don't be vindictive but don't stand still. As cold as it may sound this is now a business discussion.
Don't get me wrong. Keep DBing if that's what you want to do but protect yourself at the same time.
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