A Little Epiphany - (and a newbie delurking)

[Dia]

Well, yes, I *do* want a marriage with plenty of love-making in it, so I suppose it is part of the cake. But I'm not willing to have the sex part without the love part. It's the ol' male/female thing, maybe?

Making love makes a man feel close, but a woman needs to feel close before she can make love?

Part of me wanted to give in to him last night thinking it would make him feel closer to me, but I'm not willing to be that tactical with things involving my own boundaries. Not at present, anyway.