They all change in their own special ways TF.

So do we. That is the blessing in all of this.

Letting go-we all have to define it for ourselves. It used to mean something very different to me than it does now.

It isn't just something we do because they need it. It is something we give to ourselves.

I used to be afraid that if I let go, that would mean that I was agreeable to a D. That I would carry hurt and hate with me. I have learned that, for me, that is not what it means at all.

Through letting go, my definition of it, I have given myself a precious gift. Someone called me a brat last night. I am. A little. But that was me. The me that I have buried for so long. It was effortless.

That is what I wish for everyone here. It doesn't have to be something to dread.



"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox