Given the length of the affair, the abandonment of his family under the guise of "working too much" (which we know is true, but not the whole story now), and the to-your-face lying when confronted about his relationship (do you remember him telling you that you were nuts and that he had NOTHING with this woman but a friendship?!!)...
...there is nothing he could do.
There are some betrayals, for me at least, that go too far.
I mean, maybe he could change...maybe. But it would be a complete LIFE change at this point, wouldn't it?
We have a saying here, maybe you have a similar one...
"Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on ME."
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."