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Then you don't need me.

Good job, and keep it up.


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It is nice to get affirmation on doing the right things!


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House sold in 5 days, over asking price. Got to like that. W still in her "angry" mode and let her hear it yesterday. Today, when I called her to give her a piece of info on the house sale, she was all about "temperature checking" with me, asking me if I was "ok" or if "something was wrong." What is up with that?

Then she just emails me a link to a house that is for sale at what we sold our place at, in a location we talked about before the bomb. Why? Crazy WAW...


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Come on man. What do you think it is?


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Seriously, it is like schizophrenia. She signed a lease and moved out, has her own place. Says it sucks and is so hard, but it is better than the past 5 years. Then this junk. Flippin' crazy.


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First "my" weekend with S under the new and real separation. Was great. Met WAW last night to do some Costco shopping then go out to eat. WAW asked how weekend was, I said it was one of the best I had in a long time. She says "sure, since I wasn't around." Of course I responded that was not the issue, it was just great to have just me and S all weekend - a lot of fun nd I really liek spending all that focused time with him.

She got a little emotional and told me she had been angry, not feeling well, etc all weekend because of S being gone, and she wrote me a long, angry, emotional email Sat. night that she didn't send. I told her to send it if she wants!


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Now she is send me stuff from craigslist on ideas for a place for me to rent. Nice she is concerned!


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Originally Posted By: JKL2009
Now she is send me stuff from craigslist on ideas for a place for me to rent. Nice she is concerned!


Is it close to her place?


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Not really, but not the other side of the world. More that she was trying to suggest areas she thinks I like or something. Who knows?


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Originally Posted By: JKL2009
Not really, but not the other side of the world. More that she was trying to suggest areas she thinks I like or something. Who knows?


The "Who knows" part being the most important.

Just keep it up and see where it goes.


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