EA or PA are both bad, but As far as I know H didn't technically have either, but almost had a EA and did the porn crap... Hence, I think the EA Hurt much more, and yes if he thought I ever had sex with someone else, he would be devasted. So I think the article is right on.
But I do know that if the PA was ever to come about, Yes I would be distraught.
My H is a good liar, so I will probably never know what has happend in the past.
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.