T2~ Your post made me cry...of course everything is making me cry tonight!
Quote: I think the most important thing I have to do right now is decide if this guy who lays on the couch or spends an entire Saturday putzing around in the yard instead of strolling along some beach holding my hand is a guy that I can accept just the way he is, warts, shortcomings and all.
This is so true and such good food for thought. It made me realize how much my H changed before I lost interest in trying anymore. He became some one I didn't really want to be married to anymore. My question is...how do I get the "good memories" (of when we were happy) out of my head?? I keep worrying that he will change back into that guy but by then it will be too late for us.. .
Take your second chance, and RUN WITH IT, T2!!!!!!!!!
Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)
