However, you know your H is not really confused -- is he? No, he is trying to cultivate this confusion -- as a passive-agressive tactic -- so as to be able to finagle what he wants out of you.
I do let him fluster me!!! You're right; I don't believe he's confused. Thanks for the hugs too! You're right about me doing too much defending; I've done that way too many times. OK, my new version is:
I will always be there Tuesday afternoon to pick D9 up for Terrific Tuesday and S15 asked to do the food bank also. I'll pick up S15 tomorrow also from his school. I'm going to drop them off Friday night and will pick them up again next Tuesday afternoon (*which I am fine with).
