Is my wife a WAW or is this a MLC? thx2brs

[Boat14]

I let her go to make that decision. It's her play. I am not expecting anything. And i'll laugh either way, even if she takes someone else with her, because at some point, she's going to deal with that, not me. I already let it go.

I guess this is over, and so soon ?

Stop the emails and texting......

[are you kidding]

Then why does she keep emailing me, how do i keep stuff short and sweet,when she isn't telling me what the heck she wants.

Like she has said, she has never bought a car before.

Today is the first time I have called her since the first week of August!

I only reply when she sends me a text or emails me! Twice in 2 months have I initiated with a text or email.

So yes what am i missing?

[are you kidding]

I'm done with email and texting she can email me and she's going to get an out of office reply.

[Boat14]

IT'S NOT HER E-MAILING YOU !!!!

IT'S YOU RESPONDING TO EVERYTHING !!!!!!


GET IT ?

[fisherman]

I'm done with email and texting she can email me and she's going to get an out of office reply.

Be out of the office more often....ya dig?

[are you kidding]

You've seen the emails today,look forward to what you guys have to say,i need a break. for a bit.

[cat04]

You know what, I would have hung up on you too and I don't do that to people because it is majorly disrespectful.

You are making this way worse on the both of you than it has to be.

Stop asking any questions. Stop wondering if what you are doing is the right thing. Stop talking about anything that does not pertain to the kids. Just STOP.

You want advice but you do what you want anyway and then come here and tell us about it. We tell you what we think and then you REPEAT your behavior anyway.

How is that working for you?

SLOW DOWN. Give her time and space or you will be seeing the inside of a courtroom for a divorce very soon.

I have seen none of this that requires immediate attention, except the fridge, and when it has, she took care of it.

You have some of the best people on here and you refuse to implement what they are telling you because you are not LISTENING.

[are you kidding]

Do you think she'll calm down enough to read those emails I sent?

smiley face. Printed off the last couple posts, I am going to stare at them for a couple of days.

She makes it so tough to be consice. smiley face.

[are you kidding]

how do i safely go from my facebook to the db link?

[Jack_Three_Beans]

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It seems like you view any text on her part as an opportunity to assure her that everything is going to be ok. It seems like your not listening to anyone here when they are telling you to stop talking about your marriage with her...which by the way as an example:

"This is a misunderstanding, we’re not talking. want for you and the kids to get what want,need or are ever going to want,need."

You're not going to fix her life by getting her a new car.

You're not going to 'fix' anything for her and magically have her come out of an MLC.

I said that you post like your a hamster on crack, I understand that you are ADHD...YOU are going to have to f-ing focus man so that your LIFE is not like your posts. You are all over the place.

I am not making fun of you. Jim Abbott had only one arm and pitched a no hitter for the New York Yankees. I am saying overcome.

Stop saying your not going to text her and just do it.

Stop telling her everything is going to ok...stop trying to be the hero she doesn't want.