Boat, my comments on him today were about journalling for me(er, I think!) I know you`ve been spot on about me and detachment( or lack of same!) in the past so I`ll watch that one.

Thank you, thank you folks re helping me let go. Yup, gotta let it roll no matter how hard I find it.

And its a lot easier than it was three months ago-.

This board just saves my sanity most days!

Yup, H has had a Cat scan too. Didn`t find anything though. But then probably looked in the wrong place for brain activity....