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Wife's email:So I just go buy the Mazda? Me:Do you want to pick it out yourself and we buy it together? Or is your plan to pick it out and buy it yourself?

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Wifes email...I will pick it. Just can’t afford 2 cars.Me:We’re not going to have two cars What do I do with the Suzuki?Me:The dealership would sell it.

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You really hate giving up any control don't you ?

Stop being so accessable.

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ayk,

If it's not about the kids, let it go. If she needs specific info re: when lease is up, give it and no more. Let her handle her stuff and it is her stuff now regardless of you status. Don't ask if you're going to be on the car, how she's going to pay for it nothing.

If you're conceerned about finances and you think she's going off the deep end spending wise, protect yourself and your kids. Not sure what state you're in, but if push came to shove and you didn't want to file for D you could file for legal sep.

You don't need to be at her beck and call, and you are. If she texts I think you probably jump. I understand,I do, but stop it, now.

If you have to look at the rest of your life without her in it, who do you want to be? Work on that.

HUGS

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I can’t trade a car that doesn’t have my name on it. THANKS!!! I am now in tears at work. YOU FRUSTARTE ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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I called her at work in a nice tone of voice, she's ticked off, yelled at me, said she's at work and hung up on me.

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Originally Posted By: are you kidding
I can’t trade a car that doesn’t have my name on it. THANKS!!! I am now in tears at work. YOU FRUSTARTE ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


AYK....Is that you ar her ?

If it's you ?

Not gonna comment.

If it's her ?

Of course it's your fault....Don't you know that ?

DON'T TRY TO FIX THIS.....

DROP IT NOW.....

She is gonna have to pull up her big-girl panties soon without you.....

This is what life is gonna be without you.....

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Originally Posted By: are you kidding
I called her at work in a nice tone of voice, she's ticked off, yelled at me, said she's at work and hung up on me.


What am I missing here?

Listen to what everyone is telling you and stop calling her, or keep calling her, keep p*ssing her off and keep getting frustrated.


Don't stand still.
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Me: you don’t trade the car, Suzuki dealership is buying the car from us and they will sell it. All we need to know is when you want to do this.

Pick out the car you want. I will be on the loan for the new car with you. Email is impersonal and we can’t understand eachother’s voice inflection.

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follow up email from me:
This is a misunderstanding, we’re not talking. want for you and the kids to get what want,need or are ever going to want,need.

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