So I guess I needed to be more clear. H emailed me this am again when am I going to meet him at the dropoff point tonight. I was off getting my hair cut and so I didn't get it. He just called me to ask if I was going to pick up D9 at school. I said of course, she wants to go to Terrific Tuesday, and I will be there to pick her up for that (like I was last week!) and I had emailed him last night I would drop them off Friday night. I said I'm not going to (have time) be able to drop them off and he said he would pick them up anywhere (anything to reduce his child support).
I told him (for the 10th time!) I prefer email and I will email him. He said he does too (then why call me?) and I said thanks and hung up on him mid whatever he was saying. Never have done that before, but I felt like he was breaking my boundaries with that call. So this is my email I'm going to send: Feel free to critique or whatever...
I don't understand the confusion. I've emailed you several times that I don't think that's the best for the kids. We're trying to reduce the switching back and forth, and exchanging the kids tonight will be doing the opposite. I emailed you several times about this last week, and I think the week before that. I said if you have any problems please contact your lawyer. I will always be there Tuesday afternoon to pick her up for Terrific Tuesday and S15 asked to do the food bank today also.
