How is anything YOU'VE done even close to the disrespect and behavior that he's done? You've taken care of yourself and your heart and mood, and he's leaving for full weekends and behaving like a teenager. Really? You're the one with the problem?
What happened is he sensed he lost control in the R, and now he's trying to take it back.
Really, Oz, if he really has a double standard and expects to be able to cake eat for the rest of your lives, do you want him?
I think SDFound nailed it - this is about control.
