I don't think anyone begrudges Kevin standing for his M, I say good for you and I pray it works out. It's the seemingly unhealthy attachment to his W. His(your) emotions seem to wrapped up in her even if they were living as a married couple right now it would be unhealthy and as you've said Kev you were this way before...That's why everyone that posts here wants him to get help NOT for standing for his M.
just my $0.02
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."