Kevin,
There is a lot of truth to this. My W used to have a deep faith - she literally set aside her beliefs so that she could file divorce because she believed it was wrong Biblically. Her solution was to then say, "I just don't believe in the Bible anymore."

I have never pushed her in that regard - but let her see the changes God made in me. It's funny too - she has started changing in many ways. She used to say that she didn't believe in the Bible and not "God", just a higher power. A couple of months later, she told the kids she didn't believe in evolution, but that God created us. Then, a couple of months later, she randomly texted me about something she was watching on TV about God. She started talking about how she wasn't sure about the Bible, and how do we know it's true?

Then, one day, we're at Taco Bell, and she was telling me about a mutual friend that was parachuting in the Army, and he fell and broke his hip, and S7 pipes up, "We should pray for him!" W just sort of looked at him.

The kids and I do pray every single day for her soul, but the best thing I can do for her is to allow God to live in me, and be an example. Realize that I can't do anything about it except perhaps let her see God in me. Actions speak louder than words.

As for you: I think you would get a better reception here on the boards if you would post what is changing in YOU! Let God deal with your W!

How are you improving your quality of life? How is God changing you? What has He revealed in you where you can be better?