A couple of things stick out when I think back on my conversation with W two nights ago. You all recall that I told her I couldn't stay married to someone who was in a relationship with OM. I told her we needed to move forward with D which she has brought up / threaten with a few times recently (before I get called out for using t he term threatened, I use that term because she has not followed through yet) I told her we needed to get the Realtor going to sell the house, think about property, etc. She was taken aback as if she didn't expect any of that. Later in the conversation when I brought up our agreement that she would not push for with D if I would stop hassling her about OM she launched into complete denial that the agreement was ever in place. It was weird. We had a very specific and heartfelt conversation about it and agreed. After my surprise and a few rounds of debate I kind of called her and said something like, so what did you actually think we were doing? She sat quiet and then said she didn't know. I don't get it and I'm afraid to talk to her about anything at this point.


AKA: "Ben the school teacher"
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Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20
Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08
My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09
W w/OM 6/09-11/09

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