T2 and everyone,

I see so much wisdom on this thread. Can you share your thoughts about my sitch? Piecing Here I Come....PMA

The nutshell, is H and I are S. kids 4 and 2 yrs. old. I'm hoping H will come home soon, H will not commit to a D nor our M, we spend time together, etc..Well, H has never told his folks we are S (5 months now.) We have plans to spend thanksgiving with his family.(H's idea.) All of us staying together, My mom lives 5 minutes away from the in-laws. Should we all stay together or should I stay with my mom and make him fess up to the truth? nik

Sorry for the highjack!!