I've never posted to you and have read parts of your story here and there. That said, in the previous post you said or the bible says "9 I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, and marries another woman commits adultery.”


Martil unfaithfulness isnt' just "cheating"....a person can be unfaithful to their marriage in many ways... below is a definition for unfaithful... note that it's just not about being sexually faithful.



1. not faithful; false to duty, obligation, or promises; faithless; disloyal.
2. not sexually faithful to a spouse or lover.
3. not accurate or complete; inexact: an unfaithful translation.
4. Obsolete. unbelieving; infidel.



So, with that being said what I am trying to say ... and yes I stood and am still standing......is that the way you are coming across is not helfpful.... it feels and sounds like pressure from you and has ring of zeal to it that is not attractive.

I am a believer BTW....

So if the above is true of you and your W and she or you has been unfaithful then she or you is free to leave the marraige. I don't think God wants our marraiges to fail but that's where the free will part comes in and you have no control over that.

Just food for thought for you.




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M:47
M:18
D16, S19
1st S 1/08-5/08
Reconciled/May 7, 2008
Left again Nov 9, 2009
I Filed: Nov 17, 2009
Final: April 14, 2010
EX walked away from kids too