Nothing I do now affects the outcome, but everything i do now affects the outcome, the fact she never got to pick out a car has been a major hurt.
She saw it as control I know it was impulsiveness that caused that,I want her to have a new car,it's not a tic for tac and I'm not giving in to her.
I don't like the payment it's high, the car is solely in my name and if she did divorce me, on my current income, I'd be strapped to afford it anyway. I have a demo, I don't need a car or car payment.
For the first time in months, she has actually referred to it as a car, vs "your car."
The kids and i always called it mom's car.
I found out in one of her tyraids that in 95 she was going to kick me out for buying her a car back then that she didn't get to pick out.
