Future, I suppose that Im sad that my H couldnt pull it together. But Im glad that I tried so hard to save my M, I think that I would have some serious questions if I had given up when he did. I was sad for a little while, but Im ready to move on, to find new, exciting ways to live my life. He is being wimpy and aimless isnt he?!
I havent talked to him since he left. And I dont really mind. I read another post on here where a woman referred to her M as a "detail" so she could keep her insurance. I hope that I can get out of it before thats all it means to me. I still place a very high value on M and I dont think that it will ever not have a significant meaning to me.
From my own experience, I think that trying as hard as we do allows us to move on with a sense of closure that we are never really given by the WAS who leaves for an affair.
I think you'll be able to move on and be happy for yourself no matter what happens. You can always keep your head held high and know you did what was right.
Nobody can take that from you.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
