SO2 - isn't it amazing how your outlook changes when you get around other people? I remember believing everything my W told me was "wrong" with me, and I continually see her anger because my kids love me so much, and I'm so happy.

After being confirmed by my kids, family, friends, business acquaintances, associates, and even complete strangers, I started to realize that W was the ONLY person in the world who thought I was a bum. That tells me that perhaps the problem isn't with ME! smile

(disclaimer: I realize I've not achieved perfection yet, just making a point!)