You know Puppy. This will be a good exercise for me: to list out all the ways I remember being controlling. Unfortunately, I need to work now. But I will do it tonight; it may be enlightening.

Thanks.

Me: 36, W: 33, M: 10 yrs
Bomb: 1/09, Seperated: 9/09, Piecing Begins: 10/09

My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...t=91&page=1