So should I go to mediation as he wants even though I don`t want us to separate-feel at the very least we should work on us before letting marriage go. But don`t want to force him to stay either?
H stayed away all evening. Home briefly for something to eat though I was gone with the younger two at the time.
No improvement. No huge tension either.
He is sick-has a form of arthritis that has just flared up now. I did ask if there was something i could get him knowing he was in pain. But no.
He doesn`t look well.
But I know that`s not my problem.
I`m GALing away. Happy enough most of the time actually. Can see lots of blessings in all of this.
Hey Fall,
You have to let him go....It's the only way.
You still being here, and chosing to stand for this, is enough to let him know how YOU feel about this.
No need to rehash unless he starts it.
I see a lot of your focus on him still. Lots of things you say are about what he is doing and saying....
Okay, up for discussion here now....
I have noticed, here and at home, that a lot of MLC'ers come down with "mystery" illnesses.
I ( we) ( her ) have been through the whole gammet. MRI's, Catscans, X-rays.....you name it, we've done it....
All were negative, nothing conclusive, but the fact that there was the concern....
I know there are others here that have been through the same...
