Oh, my bad. No, no fight with H. He seems a little moody, but I think he's annoyed because I'm sick. Always has hated it if I was sick. Whatevs on that. Or his parents are driving him crazy, or he misses booze, or he looked at porn again...see there's a million things it could be, so I'm going to ignore it.

Those comments were from me looking at some of the Piecing threads and there is a lot of extreme anger at some unfaithful spouses. I get that. I would probably be the same way. But I don't think that's going to be a good support spot for me. I'm not going to grovel for strangers' understanding of my own A. That I regret, have made peace with God on, and it's just not good for my progress to hear extreme putdowns of anyone who's made that very terrible mistake.


Me-42,H-41,M-14
S-12,9


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