I PUT UP MY STORY IF YOU READ IT YOU WILL SEE WHAT I WENT THROUGH AND I JUST MEAN YOU HAVE TO MAKE A STAND.I GOT MY HUSBAND BACK,HE HAS BEEN GREAT.WHAT I MEANT AND I MEANT NO DISRESPECT WAS DONT BE AFRAID TO ASK OR DEMAND WHAT YOU EXPECT FROM HIM OR EVEN NEED FROM HIM.IF HE CANT OR WONT MEET YOUR NEEDS,DO YOU REALLY NEED HIM OR DO YOU JUST WANT HIM SO BADLY THAT YOU WILL SELL YOUR SOUL JUST TO GET HIM BACK?I WAS SO WORRIED ABOUT MY H FEELINGS TIPPY TOEING AROUND HIS FEELINGS I FORGOT ABOUT ME.I WAS LOST SOMEWHERE,BUT I HAVE FOUND MY SELF RESPECT AGAIN.I AM NOT THE VICTIM ANYMORE.YOU SEE,HOW CAN ANY MAN RESPECT US IF WE DONT RESPECT OURSELVES ENOUGH TO STAND UP FOR OURSELVES.ITS NOT ABOUT HIM NOW,ITS ABOUT YOU.YOU HAVE TO FEEL BETTER,YOU NEED A HUG AND THE SELF CONFIDENCE TO SAY I MAY LOVE YOU BUT I HAVE NEEDS AND THEY ARE NOT BEING MET.AND IF YOU HAVE KIDS LIKE I DO,IS THIS WHAT YOU WANT THEM TO ENDURE WHEN THEY GROW UP?IF HE LOVES YOU HE WILL CHANGE HIS BEHAVIORS FOR YOU OR HE WILL AT LEAST ATTEMPT TO.WE MAKE EXCUSES FOR THEIR BEHAVIORS WHEN IN REALITY ALL WE ARE DOING IS ENABLING THEM.OUT OF THEIR WEAKNESS WE SHOULD GAIN OUR STRENGTH.TELL HIM WHAT YOU NEED AND IF HE CANT MAKE THE COMMITMENT,IS THIS THE MAN YOU REALLY WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH?IF HE TOLD YOU HE NEEDED SOMETHING WOULD YOU BE WILLING TO COMPLY?OF COURSE YOU WOULD,SO WHY SHOULD YOU SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS!
