No, H, I cannot talk to you because you are ABUSIVE. I talk to other people all the time, but you are a bully and an emotional abuser. I choose not to be abused any longer.
Your H makes me so angry. I'm glad you finally see how amazing you are and are standing up to him.
Definitely bring this up in MC tonight. He will try to discredit you...and I'll bet he hasn't set any goals. He will try to pull them out of his butt at the last minute, or he will have some excuse that makes it all your fault.
Stay strong!
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!