Bunny, This is just brutal to read, and my W thinks I am emotional narcissistic abuser!
I don't know how you can continue to put up with this.
See the pattern here? All of this is deflection from him to YOU, trying to make this all about YOUR problems, as if he has none. This is outright emotional abuse and manipulation.
As you have been doing here, I would hope you write this down and bring to both your IC and your MC.
I would be willing to bet, if you bring this up in MC, he will deflect back to you that you just 'misunderstood' him, or he has 'forgotten' that he said that, minimize it in some way, etc, etc..
Don't give up, you deserve better than this treatment and I hope you understand that!
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
