IM NEW AT THIS BUT I HONESTLY BELIEVE YOU HAVE TO SET UP BOUNDARIES.I JUST DONT UNDERSTAND WHY WE LET THEM BACK SO EASILY.YOU ARE LETTING HIM BACK UNDER HIS TERMS.I DID THAT FOR A LONG TIME,BUT THINGS DIDNT CHANGE UNTIL I TOOK CONTROL,YOU ARE LETTING HIM BELIEVE HE CAN HAVE HIS CAKE AND EAT IT TO.DO WE REALLY WANT THEM BACK IF THEY DONT WANT TO BE BACK?WE CANT MAKE THEM LOVE US,BUT WE CAN LOVE AND RESPECT OURSELVES ENOUGH TO TAKE OUR LIVES BACK,WITH OR WITHOUT THEM!JUST MY POINT OF VIEW,BUT WHY SHOULD HE CHANGE ANYTHING IF YOU DONT DEMAND IT?
