I know that her talk to me is a lot different than her talk to her GF and sister. When talking to me, she talks about staining the deck next summer. Talking (or E-mailing) to others, she talks about her new place.
Her actions are so confusing. She hugged me good night last night. I kissed her forehead. I was expecting a quick hug, but she held me for quite a while. Then off to "her" room.
Earlier in the day, we texted and I called her on the way home to tell her I would be late getting home tonight (shocker - she was going to GF's house w/S7). She kept me on the phone for a while.
This along with the fact that she watched TV with me last night before bed (she initiated), good night then too, kissed and slept together this weekend, and drank coffee together on the porch swing Sunday all are positives. Still no R talk. Still planning on moving as far as I know.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.