^^Rabbit, I think that Oz has put it really well and I echo her sentiments.
I also praise your loving detachment and marvel at how well you have grasped it by the horns to a point where you are so content with yourself and your new life. Wish you could bottle that - I would have a crate full sent out on the next BA flight!!
... but I hear the fact that you feel that both of you are doing pullbacks. I feel that's where my H and I are at.
Like Oz, I don't know what to tell you right now. I would just sit on the fence and wait and see ... you are doing OK. I think that Oz's situation today has stopped us all in our tracks and made us think. We do what we feel is right but how can we ever know?
I'm here to support you this evening but as I am just back from the C, my head is all over the place and I have no wisdom to pull out of the hat. Sorry - I know that it's disappointing as we always want our buds to share what they are feeling but I just don't have anything right now, other that which Oz has already said so succinctly.
Will try a bit more for you tomorrow. Have a great day - go out and ride madam like a wild woman!!
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
